No offense, been playing on a few servers now, Durotan, Darkspear, Argent Dawn and so far, the ratio of smack talking and stupidity is steadily on the rise.

Anyone play on a server, preferably Horde side that doesn't see a lot of nonsense? I know, its WoW, but as many servers as they have, I find it hard to believe atleast one isn't tainted.

Oh yeah, US or Oceanic please.

Turn off all public chat channels.  Don't use the dungeon finder.  Join a mature guild that has strict rules about conduct, and only group with people you know.

Other then that, i wish you the best of luck. 

ilidan allie side is nice,played there forever!

can only speak for the EU servers... but while there are quite a few 'kiddies' i would have to say that generally the amount of bad language used is actually very low...  if the US servers suffer from that kind of behaviour.... i really don't know what to say..  on the other hand.. for the type of players your complaining about.. look no further than global agenda, they make WoW players look positively saintly..

So it seems it has come down to finding the right guild and shutting off the rest of the servers population from my sight. Thank you all for your suggestions and hopefully I'll find a nice home out there somewhere for me and my friends.