i have played a wow for to long! and need a change. i like pve more then pvp so if u have any recamendations tell me.

 LOTRO has pretty good PVE, not much in the pvp if you ever wanted to do that though. AoC is more PvP orinated but has some end-game pve content, and casual leveling instances

That's not too specific. Please describe what other features make an MMO enjoyable for you. For example graphic style (realistic/cartoony), type of pvp (territorial/open/arena/duels), how much of a level grind, is crafting important, F2P or P2P, and do you want it more solo or group oriented.

relitic gerafics and not much pvp still there"manly keep fights"  pay for. or free. good commuity and not wow.

Try DDO (dungeon and dragons online).   Very little to none on the pvp. Graphics are good. 

Community is good.  Has in game voice chat.  The best out there for ingame voice chat. 

Lvl cap isnt all that high atm, but new mod 9 coming around February or so.  Overall a really good game that get little to no praise.  Has monthly fee of 14.99 USD. 

Atlantica Online - (Where are you to suggest this, Oracleus. ) It's a F2P, turn based MMO, you control three mercenaries and your main character after the tutorial, tons of crafting options, encourages grouping with more exp & better drops, you get 30 seconds for your attack turn, and tons of content. The only pvp in this game is in an arena area. The cash shop items can be obtained in game through normal play just don't expect them to be common.

Perfect World International - Pretty graphics, character customization is the best for a F2P game, pretty heavy grind, quests give the majority of exp & then it turns into mob grinding about half way through the game, marriage system, events, has a few crafting options, and territorial wars. Also after level 30 there is open PKing if I remember right.

Besides those I agree with the D&DO suggestion. It has totally different gameplay from WoW and the realistic graphics you are looking for. It is P2P.

 Dungeon Runners. It's pretty much the epitome of the "Dungeon Crawler" game.  Not really an MMO for a hardcore player, but definitely fits your criteria.

i suggest LOTRO it has good pve.

For PvE, LOTRO and DDO, hands down. Hardly any PvP to look at, but if you're really not interested in that, then no problem.