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1/05/13 6:18:27 PM#121
Originally posted by grimgryphon Last time i checked, being gullible wasent a crime. So why punish those because someone took advantage of them? Punish those that take advantage of others.
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1/05/13 6:28:16 PM#122
Originally posted by xAPOCx
Isn't it better to get the lesson in a video game?
In EVE, (Yes I went there) it's part of the game, some even consider it skill, taking down corperations by rising through their ranks and cleaning their hangar, can take months, in some cases years.. For some, this is the whole game.
If you don't want to fall victim to any of this, just use common sense. <- That works for any game, IRL too!
@OP Send me 25g, and I'll send you double back.. I've quit GW2, but I like to see who would be so kind as to help strangers like I, and if they do, I reward them twofold.
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1/05/13 6:32:48 PM#123
Originally posted by Sovrath LOL. Its you who doesnt understand. Its not the perfect world but how we conduct ourselves when someone is wronged. Your quick to blame the victim and not the criminal. And i dont know what i said that prompted you to say RED. Another missunderstaning on your part? I know people dont always take the necesary precautions to make sure people take care of themselves but is that any excuses to absolve the criminal of any wrong doin because the victim was in the wong place at the wrong time? That was what i was trying to convay in my previous post. That it seems like everyone is prosecuting the victim and not the criminal. Shame on you.
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1/05/13 6:38:01 PM#124
Originally posted by xAPOCx How about this, when someone is wronged then I blame the criminal. When somene is wronged because of bad decisions on their part, then I blame the criminal and I then call negligence on the victim. You think a family who leaves their kids with known, violent crack heads isn't going to be questioned by the judge when something horrible happens? Shame on me? Well, I suppose that's what you would say when you think people can act however they want and never take responsibility for their actions.
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1/05/13 6:38:14 PM#125
Originally posted by grimgryphon Exactly. For every action/inaction there is a consequence. People are responsible for their own actions. This fellow didn't use good judgement, so as a consequence was taken. |
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1/05/13 6:44:56 PM#126
Originally posted by eyelolled 7 years of mmorpg player to player trading, and I've never been scammed.
What I'm saying is, more options to interact is a good thing. Why all the sudden direct player interaction, and scam artists be paired? Is it because direct player trade is not offered in gw2? I know you love the game, but having more options can't possible take away from the experience, and be a bad thing.
Having a window is the best suggestion that's came out of this thread. DamonVile- Games built for disposable players are now apparently built by disposable employees. |
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1/05/13 7:01:29 PM#127
Originally posted by bcbully because GW had a direct player to player trade window and people were scammed all the time. They put warnings up to help people learn how to not be scammed from people trading items directly because some people are niave, and those people needed a big sign saying "be careful, because there are bad people out there" The TP eliminates that. Now I don't know if you're a scammer and that's why you think this is important, or if it's just that you are having difficulty getting it all straight in your head, but I'm hoping that I don't need to continue to say the exact same sentence over again The only people that NEED direct player to player transactions are the scammers.
oh heck, one more time just in case.
The only people that NEED direct player to player transactions are the scammers.
I got a fever, and the only prescription is ...
The only people that NEED direct player to player transactions are the scammers. All of my posts are either intelligent, thought provoking, funny, satirical, sarcastic or intentionally disrespectful. Take your pick. |
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1/05/13 7:21:31 PM#128
Originally posted by xAPOCx Just using his example of the woman, who mind you has had her place of residence broken into THREE times, but at what point does personal responsibility stop coming into play? One time, yes she did leave the house open yet it should be enough for her to learn better. It happens a second time thanks to the same reason? It's negligent of her now. Three times all because she doesn't feel like going through the extra bit of work to lock her house up? Gross negligence on her part. At some point personal responsibility must come into play, specially when she has prior knowledge that this results in a bad outcome. Think of it like this. I hold out a red and blue stick, both do the same thing (whatever it might be). I then inform them that the red stick isn't safe to touch though because it has a short, or some other reason that will more than likely hurt them. They grab it once. They go ow, give it back to me. Then they grab it again, and again.
Instead of actually reading the posts at hand, you absent-mindedly jump to white-knight the OP while completely ignoring the fact that not a single person here is advocating that the alleged scammer shouldn't be punished. So instead of just jumping on someone with some baseless, inane accusation and assumptions, try bothering to really read the posts. |
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1/05/13 8:24:58 PM#129
Originally posted by eyelolled You honestly believe this don't you? Player to Player trading where you can see the item you are buying in the menu highlight it and check it is safe, now if it was like GW2 current system where one person has to go first yes I would agree, but its not. You just blindly defend ArenaNet on this, the TP is a gold sink that they made and they want it to stay that way, its not about protecting the players its about making sure when you farm 50g you really only farmed 35g.
Explain to me in detial, how with player to player trading system like WoW I can be scammed? (Assuming I look at the items) On top of that why no CoD that is full proof aswell with no gold sink, I put in the item it sends it to my mail box if it is the item I wanted I take it out of the mailbox and it automatically removes the gold, simple scam proof. [mod edit]
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1/05/13 8:28:21 PM#130
Originally posted by Serenes Hold on there, lets NOT ASSUME. We've already proven that people can be niave, or did you completely miss that? Oh and who is in denial? All of my posts are either intelligent, thought provoking, funny, satirical, sarcastic or intentionally disrespectful. Take your pick. |
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1/05/13 8:30:10 PM#131
Originally posted by xAPOCx .... Nobody here thinks the person who did the scamming shouldn't be punished. In fact, we don't even know if the other person WAS punished. It could very well be that Anet banned them or suspended them without advertising it to the world. The only thing Anet told the OP was that they basically couldn't force the other party to hand over what they owe the OP. We all agree that the scammer should be punished. We are also saying that the OP is also somewhat at fault for negligence on his/her part. The OP knew s/he was playing in a video game that lacks player-to-player interaction AND that lacks COD in mail. OP should have been more cautious about trading with another player s/he had never met before. And the OP knew that the TP was the only actual safe way of trading with other players. The OP should have never sent the full amount right away for the item, especially to some stranger. I thought the general rule of thumb for such trades is you send a fraction of the amount, and then deliver the rest when the other person delivers the item. |
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1/05/13 8:32:38 PM#132
Originally posted by eyelolled You are buddy, for thinking that player-to-player trading is only used as a tool for scamming other players. Some person being niave has nothing to do with it, as that is a facet in just about every system imaginable. Sure you have players who don't check the items before agreeing to a Player-to-Player trade.
Just like you have players who don't check the prices on an item they find, and sell it for well above or below its actual price. Or players who don't listen to common sense among other things when dealing with situations. Naivity has no bearing in this at all, as it affects everything, not just Player trading. |
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Yaevindusk
Elite Member
Joined: 9/05/10
Logic, reason and fact do not supersede the law. Lies reign without justice. |
1/05/13 8:33:08 PM#133
I understand that this experience may completely ruin one's experience in a game. It's my honest belief that ANET should be ashamed if they investigated and then gave that response; most other games will see it and take the appropriate measures. Then again, there isn't an official trade option in GW2, and the trade post is there for a reason. With that, and the amount of people who fall for tricks, it may not be feasible to do so with the the resources they currently have at their disposal. Personally I'd quit the game until the next expansion if this happened to me, so good for you if you get back up and keep going despite this dishonest setback. The Crystal's Call Gameplay Trailer: http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/blog/post/383 Tour of Eorzea Part 2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JQ87KtH1G8 Six hours of FFXIV 1.0 Cutscenes: http://www.twitch.tv/thaze_tv/b/338928300 |
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1/05/13 8:38:08 PM#134
Originally posted by eyelolled Naive yes, but Face to Face trading has been in almost every big MMO sense the dawn of MMOs and most don't have horriable scamming problems I actually see more scamming threads about GW2 then I do any other game, except FFXI.
They have one really safe costly method of buying/selling and then they have one method that is completely unsafe and retarded.
I'm sorry nothing you can say will make the fact that they have to face to face trading in this game, its safe with the correct menu system. People don't want to pay the 15% gold tax its stupid I should not have to, its very unrealistic on top of everything else.
Jim says "I have this really nice axe do you want to buy it for 5g?" Sara says "I would love to." Jim says "I don't want to go first I don't know you." Sara says "I don't want to go first either I don't know you." Jim says "Well it is completely impossiable to do it at the same time becaus the world we live in don't allow it." Sara says "Well that sucks I guess I'll go pay 10g for it on the Black Lion Company, because it is the only safe way to do trade in this world." Jim says "Bye!" Sara says "Bye!"
I could just as easly click a picture on the TP that looked like the item I wanted to buy but it wasent should I get a refund from the seller? |
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1/05/13 9:01:27 PM#135
Originally posted by Serenes And Jim gets promoted to the dumbest idiot on the planet, because he could sell on the TP for a profit of 8.5 gold or did Sara just dodge getting scammed? All of my posts are either intelligent, thought provoking, funny, satirical, sarcastic or intentionally disrespectful. Take your pick. |
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Kyleran
Bitter Vet™
Joined: 9/13/06
Fools find no pleasure in understanding, but delight in airing their own opinions. Pvbs 18:2, NIV |
1/05/13 9:19:11 PM#136
Originally posted by Yaevindusk Bingo, and therein lies the real problem. They got the OP's money (and yours) and until the next expansion comes out, you really are just a drain on resources which they will try to minimize. The correct response if this angers you is to never buy the next expansion, but they know most players will forget and buy it anyways. Face it, no subs means you're going to get weaker customer support than a game that has one. You really do get what you pay for. "What gamers want ... is new game play patterns different from what they've experienced before" - Axehilt |
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1/05/13 9:22:45 PM#137
Originally posted by Kyleran I really wish people would actually read what they say. "They don't care about me because I gave them money, but if I was giving them more money, THAN I would get the respect I deserve!!!!"
All of my posts are either intelligent, thought provoking, funny, satirical, sarcastic or intentionally disrespectful. Take your pick. |
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1/05/13 9:33:18 PM#138
Originally posted by colddog04 Yeah I think they should have a personal trade or COD option, however they have the Trade Post for this, and if the person was willing to sell you for less than the going rate, alarm bells should have been ringing already. |
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1/05/13 10:08:11 PM#139
Zoyita, I'm really sorry for what happened to you. First that a scammer took your money, and such a large sum at that. Second that the reply from the support was so disappointingly useless and dismissive. Third that you have to suffer all the accusations from the forum posters here for bringing attention to the issue about unpunished scammers.
I hope you can still get some enjoyment out of the game. It's definitely not the response I'd expect from support. IMO scamming in general is wrong, it's against the agreement, and it should be punished.
---- I have to say that all the posts here that can be summarized as "(Scamming is wrong) BUT IT'S YOUR FAULT SO YOU SHOULD SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES" make my head hurt. No wonder the communities in MMMORPGs are as bad as they are. Paired up with and intensified by how communication on internet works, this thread really seems a fine example of how the victim-blaming culture functions. You know, the culture where it's always good to blame the victim first, and if the conversation goes on, add that of course the perpetrator is bad too, but the victim, look at what the victim did!!! I'm glad there are at least a few with a different attitude (thank you for exisiting), because, good grief, based on the mentality in the replies, I can't say I'd feel SAFE going out on a drink with many of the posters. And since this thread has become in great part a call to the OP for some serious self-reflectation, let me do you the same favor: please, take a few minutes to reflect on what you are doing right now, and what kind of ideology you're spreading.
TL;DR: OP, I'm sorry about the whole situation. Scamming is in general bad. Dear fellow forumgoers, please, get your shit together. |
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1/05/13 10:58:38 PM#140
I always "appreciate" much people who stand that crime is victim's own fault. Is it your philosophy, guys? Sorry I am very disappointed here... About what happened to OP. I guess ANet could take some friendly actions, like Blizzard does, and roll back this trade, but they are too busy to count Item Shop gold, I guess. IMO, soon they will stop even answer (I can give a list of games where it came this way). IMO, fact they made TP not gives them excuses to not make normal trade window with double check, like any decent MMO uses.
try before buy, even if it's a game to avoid bad surprises. |
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