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6/27/11 3:51:44 PM#101
I also don't see the point of a Homosexual marriage except for legal reasons involving children and /or visitation rights in the case of an illness. If you don't want children and there's no religion involved, why the hell do you want to complicate the relationship when you get the best of everything=) |
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6/27/11 4:31:45 PM#102
Originally posted by C-B-M
Alimony. It is not addressed outside of marriage. That's the only thing you get with LEGAL marriage that religious marriage doesn't give you. Legal rights are legal rights, and we are all equal under the law. if heterosexual married couples are entitled to alimony, then homosexual married couples should also be entitled to alimony. That's the only way it's equal. If there are no legal rights with marriage, then it's not an issue. You could simply say my religion doesn't marry gays, and that's that, no one would care.
But the only way to get alimony is to LEGALLY marry. What you get with your religious marriage doesn't have anything to do with me or anyone else. Your religion is your business, not mine. My only concern about marriage is that the law applies equally to everyone. If it's not a LEGAL issue, then it does not concern me, because you cannot enforce it on me.
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6/27/11 4:40:03 PM#103
Originally posted by Josher
Marriage has nothing to do with children. Courts decide custody rights and child support every day for people that have children with each other, but are not married. |
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6/27/11 5:29:59 PM#104
Of all the married couples I know. Only one does not have children. But I fully expect them to soon. |
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Zindaihas
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Joined: 5/07/06
'If you put govt in charge of the Sahara Desert, in 5 yrs there'd be a shortage of sand'~M. Friedman |
6/27/11 5:43:07 PM#105
Originally posted by Ihmotepp I'd say your timing here is pretty poor seeing as how Canadians practically burned Vancouver to the ground after the NHL Championship. Obviously, you can't pin that on gay marriage, but outfctrl is referring to the fall morality in general in the Western world. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tK6YIAX1jg |
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6/27/11 6:47:40 PM#106
Ihmotepp, the more you write the more it's evident that you don't know anything about marriage. |
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6/27/11 8:24:42 PM#107
I, for one, am very happy that NY passed the law. It affords rights to people...not just a certain section of people. In my view, that is what civilization is about. Notice, I didn't say 'modern'. However, for those that are opposed to the law I hold no grudges against them and will not stoop to any level by name-calling them (bigot happens to be the term most widely used) which I find abhorrent and ultimately self-defeating. I'm comfortable to agree to disagree.
As far as the idea or practice or being of homosexuality and the marriage of said people being normalized...well, it always has been. Now, normal as in supported by civilization? Perhaps not although I can think of times when it was more accepted in some cultures than others. But about homosexuality being normal as in...it always happens...then yes, it's been normalized since us humans started interacting on a social level with each other. To say otherwise would be very short-sighted. In the end, the definition of marriage is not for the majority to decide. It's a very personal journey between two people who have decided to share their life and love together (and all the other sappy stuff that goes along with it). Who can say that's so wrong? |
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Zindaihas
Novice Member
Joined: 5/07/06
'If you put govt in charge of the Sahara Desert, in 5 yrs there'd be a shortage of sand'~M. Friedman |
6/27/11 8:43:42 PM#108
Unfortunately, polygamists, incestuous couples and bestialists are still being left out in the cold. Maybe someday true equality will come to all. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tK6YIAX1jg |
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6/27/11 9:28:40 PM#109
Originally posted by Zindaihas lol I'm sure pro-gay activist would scold you for comparing homosexuality to everything you mentioned. |
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Zindaihas
Novice Member
Joined: 5/07/06
'If you put govt in charge of the Sahara Desert, in 5 yrs there'd be a shortage of sand'~M. Friedman |
6/27/11 9:41:47 PM#110
Originally posted by Hekket Well then they're bigots. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tK6YIAX1jg |
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6/28/11 12:42:59 AM#111
Originally posted by Zindaihas That argument? Really? From where do you get your moral information (because that's really what this is all about) from...the Bible? If that's the case then let's just have full disclosure about one man in particular: Abraham. Now here is a fine example of 2 of your arguments...clearly supported by the Bible. In fact...encouraged. Abraham...was the Dos Equis Man of the Ancient Times. Not only did he found nations...he had more than one wife (Hagar who bore him Ishmael) and married his sister, Sarah who bore him Isaac. So ya, gay marriage is the same as Abraham? Sure, if that's the way you want to argue it.
As for bestiality...it's not even a logical argument. Sex with animals does not even come close to sex between humans much less marriage. Then again...I hear of straight people having sex with animals every so often. Ever hear of a gay person doing the same? Ya, didn't think so. Still, you are entitled to your opinion and that I respect. Now it's your turn to prove that gay marriage/sex is the exact same things that you mentioned. |
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6/28/11 5:19:38 AM#112
Originally posted by Zindaihas A: And secondly, we aren't even talking about human beings here. Oh i know, i can see the use to giving alimony to a cat right there! Seriously, next time just type "hur dur dur dur". That would be even smarter than that.
B: Polygamy could be acceptable in that sense. However it does kinda break the whole "commitment" part linked to a marriage. Now ok some people may be able to do it, but i don't think one man can truly commit to multiple partners at the same time or even claim he "loves" them all. But hey if you think that a gender issue is the same as a quantity issue , sure , go ahead, go protest for it. C: Incest can actually lead to nefast effects if it involves reprocreation. Indeed, the odds of having a handicapped child is MUCH higher if it comes from an incestuous couple. Now if we can force them to not have children, sure , go ahead. Don't give a shit. Fere libenter homines id quod volunt credunt. |
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6/28/11 7:19:03 AM#113
Originally posted by Kawi1 Don't knock it until you've tried it. |
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6/28/11 7:21:14 AM#114
Originally posted by generals3 And anal sex spreads killer diseases. If you are on some mad health tip, gay isn't really the way forward. |
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Finwe
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Joined: 7/15/03
All that is needed for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing. |
6/28/11 8:08:42 AM#115
Originally posted by King_Kumquat You apparantly don't understand how this whole thing works. That's fine. Just keep your mouth shut, it prevents your cause looking like it's being fought for by a bunch of fools, and also prevent's the halfway intelligent from reading your drivel. When you can actually debate an argument, feel free. Until then, go back to middle school, it'll suit you much more thoroughly. "The greatest trick the devil played on humanity in the 20th century was convincing them that he didn't exist." (Paraphrasing) C.S. Lewis "If a mother can kill her own child, what is left before I kill you and you kill me?" -Mother Teresa when talking about abortion after accepting the Nobel Peace Prize in 1979 |
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6/28/11 11:16:09 AM#116
Originally posted by baff Hey look, if you want to sex it up with man's best friend (or any other four-legged creature) then that's your choice. I think however, that you much prefer trolls. |
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6/28/11 11:41:50 AM#117
Originally posted by baff Correct, however it's their own health they fuck up. Not the one of a third party like children from incestuous relations. Fere libenter homines id quod volunt credunt. |
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6/28/11 2:17:31 PM#118
Originally posted by Kawi1 Donkeys. An orgy without a donkey doesn't really count. |
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6/28/11 2:19:22 PM#119
Originally posted by generals3 I take it incest is ok with you as long folk use a condom.
I have a basic test. If it sounds like the plot from a Jerry Springer show, it's best not to be encouraged. |
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6/28/11 6:11:00 PM#120
There is no basis for preventing any of the above conditions, based on the arguments of homosexuals. Bestiality is not harming the animal. If we have to go on the argument of "non-consensual," then we should not have any pets, either, as there was no consent, regardless of whether YOU personally think it benefits the animal. It is established that we don't need consent from animals. Therefore, the question only hangs on whether it is acceptable to marry an animal. Since it "doesn't affect you," I don't see why not. Polygamy is also acceptable because "who are you to stop people who love each other from getting married?" The fact that YOU think that multiple people cannot sustain such a relationship is irrelevant. You are not here to judge the quality of a relationship. Therefore, multiple people can get married. Incest is also acceptable, since it is irrelevant whether the children will have any higher rate of problems. Proof? It is permissible for people with Down's syndrome to get married and have children, KNOWING that their offspring will have a high rate of having Down's syndrome. Women are permitted to have children at any age they want, even though we KNOW that the older a woman is, the higher risk she has of having a complicated pregnancy or a baby with medical problems. Therefore, incestuous relationships are to be allowed to culminate in marriage. |
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