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Varny

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9/02/09 6:21:17 PM#1

Throughout the whole time I was with her it was always about how she felt or what she wanted. Never asked what I wanted or anything it's just I'll do it the way I want and you'll have to put up with me. Everytime I want to go out with friends she'd throw a fit and yet oh no shes allowed to go out with her friends and frigging sometimes we'd be going out on the same night and she'd get angry at me saying I'm with my friends too much when I see them like once every few weeks.

The final straw was when she got angry at me cause she believed her friend that she saw me with another girl and she ripped up all my old baby photos and photos of my family and some of which who are dead. It's like why the fuck would you do that? I gave you the stuff to scan onto the computer and you didn't even do that and instead you ripped them all up. Never going to see pictures of my dead great grand mum ever again....

Every frigging time I've been with a woman it's always been selfish like that. Like one girl tried to blame cheating on me because I didn't give her enough attension, like wtf are you a dog? I don't need to tell you you're beautiful 24/7 because it becomes annoying and I don't wanna be around you like a fly around shit.

 

Can't stand women they just give me a headache! I'm just gonna enjoy being single for the rest of my life and sit down on the Sofa drinking my beer and watching the footie in peace and quiet without the nagging.

Zindaihas

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9/02/09 6:53:37 PM#2

Sorry about your misfortune with the female of the species, but I think you're stereotyping women by making such a blanket statement.  Some women are selfish, most probably are not.  Just as some men are and most probably are not.  You just happened to find one that is.  Hopefully you'll find one next time that isn't.  Good Luck.

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Mardy

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9/02/09 7:05:16 PM#3

It may also have something to do with who you are attracted to, and who your own personalities attract.  Just saying.

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Wolfenpride

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9/02/09 10:16:59 PM#4

Disregard women; earn currency.

 

Bigdavo

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9/03/09 4:33:55 AM#5
Originally posted by Wolfenpride

Disregard women; earn currency.

 


 

Step 3: score some hookers?

O_o o_O

LeKinK

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Posts: 618

9/03/09 8:43:31 AM#6
Originally posted by Varny

Throughout the whole time I was with her it was always about how she felt or what she wanted. Never asked what I wanted or anything it's just I'll do it the way I want and you'll have to put up with me. Everytime I want to go out with friends she'd throw a fit and yet oh no shes allowed to go out with her friends and frigging sometimes we'd be going out on the same night and she'd get angry at me saying I'm with my friends too much when I see them like once every few weeks.

The final straw was when she got angry at me cause she believed her friend that she saw me with another girl and she ripped up all my old baby photos and photos of my family and some of which who are dead. It's like why the fuck would you do that? I gave you the stuff to scan onto the computer and you didn't even do that and instead you ripped them all up. Never going to see pictures of my dead great grand mum ever again....

Every frigging time I've been with a woman it's always been selfish like that. Like one girl tried to blame cheating on me because I didn't give her enough attension, like wtf are you a dog? I don't need to tell you you're beautiful 24/7 because it becomes annoying and I don't wanna be around you like a fly around shit.

 

Can't stand women they just give me a headache! I'm just gonna enjoy being single for the rest of my life and sit down on the Sofa drinking my beer and watching the footie in peace and quiet without the nagging.


 

Same here, and when she say : "I would really hate it if you do this or that" and a week later she is the one doing it.  Make me mad as hell.

streea

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9/03/09 9:46:29 AM#7

Try dating outside of your comfort zone? Try dating women that aren't like the ones you've dated before?

But who am I to kid? You must be doing something right if you've dated enough women to think that you know them all.....

GoldenDog

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9/03/09 10:06:47 AM#8
Originally posted by Wolfenpride

Disregard women; earn currency.

 


 

It's working for me.  Now I've got lots of money, three cars, 4k computer, sit around the house naked, and noone to complain!

 

Really it's a big thing in Japan that the younger generation is doing.  They've realized it's a lot less stress an more money to not date.  The population is dwindling, but who's to say that's a bad thing?  Less human = more earth.  Win win if you ask me.

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9/03/09 10:09:41 AM#9

There are normal women out there, but most are like TNT. They know Drama.

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Earthgirl

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9/03/09 10:10:12 AM#10

Don't give up, most guys do end up with a nice girl that is right for them.  Sometimes it just takes a bit longer.

Illius

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9/03/09 10:15:57 AM#11

Like the others said, go date women you might not think you have anything in common.  I think you've been going to the same place and just replacing one woman of bad disposition with another.  Basically drawing from the same pool.  I'd say do a bit of thinking and figure out what it was that attracted you to that one to begin with.  Maybe you'll come to some kind of conclusion.

There are normal women out there that can get along just fine, it just takes some searching and an open mind.

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LeKinK

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9/03/09 10:30:59 AM#12
Originally posted by streea

Try dating outside of your comfort zone? Try dating women that aren't like the ones you've dated before?

But who am I to kid? You must be doing something right if you've dated enough women to think that you know them all.....


 

Euh..

You know, if you are outside your "comfort zone" it don't work in my experience.  You could have say something like : try to enlarge your comfort zone. It's doable but hard to do.

Women I don't date: Obese, poor, convenient store girl, stupid, big ego, really tall, too short, smell bad, ugly, still at school (college or less, adult school, university is fine tho), too much gump, big forehead, sick, emo (goth,vampire crap), etc, etc, etc. Frankly, I don't see myself presenting a normal girl to my family. Even if I stay single for years.

 

I am single btw, I don't bother anymore.  But there is that blond I was talking to the other day who is from an upper class family similar to mine. She isn't exactly like how I want my women to be but she seems nice, she could be a winner!!

I know I am arrogant.  ;)

Illius

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9/03/09 10:36:59 AM#13

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.

Once upon a midnight dreary, while I porn surfed, weak and weary, over many a strange and spurious site of 'hot xxx galore'. While I clicked my fav'rite bookmark, suddenly there came a warning, and my heart was filled with mourning, mourning for my dear amour, " 'Tis not possible!", I muttered, " give me back my free hardcore!"..... quoth the server, "404."

LeKinK

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9/03/09 10:39:57 AM#14
Originally posted by Illius

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.


 

:0

I am one of a kind tho

Illius

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9/03/09 10:41:38 AM#15
Originally posted by LeKinK
Originally posted by Illius

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.


 

:0

I am one of a kind tho

That's good.  Can't have tons of your kind running around anyways!

Once upon a midnight dreary, while I porn surfed, weak and weary, over many a strange and spurious site of 'hot xxx galore'. While I clicked my fav'rite bookmark, suddenly there came a warning, and my heart was filled with mourning, mourning for my dear amour, " 'Tis not possible!", I muttered, " give me back my free hardcore!"..... quoth the server, "404."

LeKinK

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9/03/09 10:55:12 AM#16
Originally posted by Illius
Originally posted by LeKinK
Originally posted by Illius

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.


 

:0

I am one of a kind tho

That's good.  Can't have tons of your kind running around anyways!


 

I know, I met someone whit the same mindset as me before (we were not talking about women tho) and we had to go separate ways before we start fighting. He was fucking arrogant lol.   But keep in mind I am normally the subtil arrogant planning on the side, not the upfront arrogant type.  Internet is just internet afterall, I don't really care what everyone will think of me on here so I just appear worst then real life, almost on purpose.

LeKinK

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9/03/09 11:02:23 AM#17

There's more! I also think everyone is jealous of me and when I go to the mall I think everyone is watching me  lol.

edit: I just saw you are from Toronto, so you know very well what arrogance is  :P

streea

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9/03/09 11:03:51 AM#18
Originally posted by LeKinK
Originally posted by streea

Try dating outside of your comfort zone? Try dating women that aren't like the ones you've dated before?

But who am I to kid? You must be doing something right if you've dated enough women to think that you know them all.....

You know, if you are outside your "comfort zone" it don't work in my experience.  You could have say something like : try to enlarge your comfort zone. It's doable but hard to do.

Years ago I took a break from dating, and when I started up again, I knew that what I had been doing wasn't working, so I gave guys a chance that I wouldn't have before. And guess what... it worked.

Now I'm not saying you should date someone who sends off warning bells in your head, or is abusive, or anything THAT far outside of a comfort zone. What I'm saying is that if what you've been doing doesn't work, you have to stop listening to whatever it is inside of you that tells you who gets a yes or a no, and start saying yes to people who might've just been a no.

LeKinK

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9/03/09 11:06:25 AM#19
Originally posted by streea
Originally posted by LeKinK
Originally posted by streea

Try dating outside of your comfort zone? Try dating women that aren't like the ones you've dated before?

But who am I to kid? You must be doing something right if you've dated enough women to think that you know them all.....

You know, if you are outside your "comfort zone" it don't work in my experience.  You could have say something like : try to enlarge your comfort zone. It's doable but hard to do.

Years ago I took a break from dating, and when I started up again, I knew that what I had been doing wasn't working, so I gave guys a chance that I wouldn't have before. And guess what... it worked.

Now I'm not saying you should date someone who sends off warning bells in your head, or is abusive, or anything THAT far outside of a comfort zone. What I'm saying is that if what you've been doing doesn't work, you have to stop listening to whatever it is inside of you that tells you who gets a yes or a no, and start saying yes to people who might've just been a no.


 

Yes I know, I am going there slowly.

Illius

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9/03/09 11:10:26 AM#20
Originally posted by LeKinK

There's more! I also think everyone is jealous of me and when I go to the mall I think everyone is watching me  lol.

edit: I just saw you are from Toronto, so you know very well what arrogance is  :P

Now were talkin!  Some good natured ribbing is always fun.  Was waiting to see how long it would take for you to actually mention Toronto.

I suppose since I live here I don't exactly see the link between arrogance and the place I live.  Apparently parts of Canada think we're cold or something....

Once upon a midnight dreary, while I porn surfed, weak and weary, over many a strange and spurious site of 'hot xxx galore'. While I clicked my fav'rite bookmark, suddenly there came a warning, and my heart was filled with mourning, mourning for my dear amour, " 'Tis not possible!", I muttered, " give me back my free hardcore!"..... quoth the server, "404."

Rayx0r

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9/03/09 1:10:51 PM#21

Go find an older broad, they'll enlighten you.  Like over 40-ish is a good start.

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Wickersham

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9/03/09 1:11:00 PM#22

More information is needed but ultimately it sounds like you have a difficult time communicating with women.

If there is a next time, I suggest you be honest to yourself with what you want in a woman and let them know what you expect from them.  Determine what they want from you and ask yourself if you can live up to those standards.  If you do anything else all you'll be really doing is participating in a confidence trick where both you and her are the victims.

Godliest

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9/03/09 2:53:58 PM#23


Originally posted by LeKinK

Originally posted by Illius

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.


 
:0
I am one of a kind tho


Please find someone who isn't. And if you do, well then you've found human cloning which would be big news...



LeKinK

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9/03/09 3:04:34 PM#24
Originally posted by Godliest

 


Originally posted by LeKinK

Originally posted by Illius

 

It's ok.  You're from Quebec, you have an excuse regarding your arrogance.


 

 
:0
I am one of a kind tho


 

Please find someone who isn't. And if you do, well then you've found human cloning which would be big news...


 

Attitude wise there are lots of person who are alike, that 6 words sentence you quoted from me wasn't refering to physic but to a mental state.  Also this isn't the first time you try to nag after I do some small talk, what's up with you? 

 

tvalentine

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9/03/09 11:58:11 PM#25
Originally posted by GoldenDog
Originally posted by Wolfenpride

Disregard women; earn currency.

 


 

It's working for me.  Now I've got lots of money, three cars, 4k computer, sit around the house naked, and noone to complain!

 

Really it's a big thing in Japan that the younger generation is doing.  They've realized it's a lot less stress an more money to not date.  The population is dwindling, but who's to say that's a bad thing?  Less human = more earth.  Win win if you ask me.


 

bah! who woulda known.... the solution to overpopulation on the earth is women!

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