I'm pretty new to the site, and as such don't really know you, but wanna wish you the best.

Best of luck to ya Dekron.  Hope your time here has been enjoyable. And hope your final chapter turns out to be a long one.

I do not know you, but I wish you blessings from whatever powers you believe in. Or if none, whatever are good for you. May you pathway be good - here and hereafter.

I send a prayer for you.

Well Dekron we haven't always seen things eye to eye but I never lost respect for you man. All I can say is my heart goes out to you and your family in what must be a very trying time for you all. I never pray being an Agnostic but I think this case warrants an acception. All of my prayers will go to you my fellow forum warrior and remember that no matter where this life or the next takes you... you were always loved here even by those that might have seemed like an enemy at the time. Take care, good luck and god speed my friend. You will be missed.

Bren

  Its only when someone is about to go that you really feel loss... Saying that... God be with you. From his lips to mine... survive

I was checking online through websites and by chance came across here. I happened to see this post.

Dekron, I understand what's going on. I want to ask you - do you believe in the creator (God)? I have something to share with you, but there's simply too much to it and there would be no reason to share this if you do not. I am not saying I refuse to share it because you do not believe, but it would mean much more if you did.

Originally posted by Dekron

I'd like to say goodbye to everyone. I've been pushing six years as a member of this site. I'm not saying farewell because I am upset at anyone or any actions as you may usually see of these types of threads. This is not a goodbye for now, see you later in a few months post. I'm not taking a hiatus - I'm not coming back.

I've met a great diverse set of people here - some I agree with, and some I don't, but that matters not. I've enjoyed the time either way. I've come to know some of you fairly well - I won't make a list because you know who you are. I must close this chapter of my life and refocus what I have left on my family.

For those of you who are, or wish to become doctors, please, learn empathy. A little personal touch, a little caring, and a little compassion will go a long way - life changing news, or rather life-ending news, should not be delivered so harshly.

For those who debate the details of afterlife - well, let's just say I'll know soon who is right.

I'm not delving into details, but with those two sentences, I'm sure you all can put things together. I only found out today.

Life is precious - don't waste it on petty differences. Learn to love and you'll learn to live. Constant bickering will turn you sour and hateful. Live life with purpose, make it meaningful. You never know how much you have left.

Take care, farwell, and goodbye.

I didnt respond until now because, well to be quite honest I dont think anything I say here will sound genuine. Especially considering that I have several opposing views.  Text is very emotionless.
 

anyway, you're right.  Life is short and its precious.  Everyone deserves to live it equally. 

I'd hope anything you learned throughout this process could be passed on to others.  Whether its embracing life and reaching out to love ones, or changing patterns within someones life to possibly avoid whatever fate has brought you.  You're a good writer, just something to consider.

Heres to you Dekron, take care.

We haven't discussed with each other really, probably since I stay out of threads about politics, but I have often read your posts (thinking about that last one about the stolen xbox360) and I can say you will be sorely missed on the forums. Active friendly members are always useful for any forum, so you leaving us is a loss.

I sincerely hope you enjoy the time you have left. You're making the right choice about focussing on the things that are important. Good luck and good journey.

Well mate, I am still going to say.

Laters!

It aint over until the obese female takes the tunes, so to speak.

Perhaps a doctor who is so bad at the job that he/she can not deliver such horrible news in a humane fashion also have other professsionnal shortcomings that make that person more likely to be wrong with the diagnosis?

Just clutching at straws here mate, but I think that is what one needs to do in such a situation.

Wait for the fat lady?

It's not over till it's over every day is a New Day.

Please don't give up hope.

Originally posted by Teala

Remember Dekron, "the second star on the right and straight on 'til morning my friend."  I'll see you there my friend...we all will.    :) 

Neverland? :D

Farewell Dekron, best wishes to you and I hope all turns out well.

I don't know the details, but I'll just give you this advice, and if it doesn't apply then ignore it:

Fight for your life.  If a doctor isn't willing to help you fight, tell him you want another doctor who is.  If a hospital is not willing to help you fight, move to one that is.  It is your life and not theirs, so it is your fight and not theirs.  Do whatever you need to do to help you fight.  Be an inconvienence to whomever you need to...  Step on the toes of the doctors if you need to...  Use them to help you fight, and if you find them lacking, tell them, and demand better of them or better than them, because they are failing you.

You've disagreed with some of us on this forum over certain issues - why are you so willing to agree with a few doctors when the end result of this latest arguement must be so unjust and unappealing to you?

Fight and be a terror.

Dekron,

Wow - it has been quite a while!  Too long, if you ask me, and I am sorry we haven't kept in touch.  I admit the news threw me off though your approach does not.

I'd post like the others about fighting this, but from what I remember of you Dekron, you're a fighter.  You wont let this get you down and you're gonna finish it swinging (fighting).

If I could, i'd like to make a request: live the time you have left as you did before it - "Live, Love and Laugh", brother. Keep faith that you'll make it through this.

The world is a better place to have known you and so am I.

Stay strong!

say hey to the big guy for me

I don't know you either sir. But I hope your faith was with Jesus Christ. I hope you find him if you haven't. And if it is your time I hope you made peace. Good luck in your endeavors and enjoy your life.

John 14:6

Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Reminds me of a bouncer at the bar door, you aint coming through unless you come through me. Sorta ironic a bit later he brings out the fact that some have the law written on there hearts and never knew him and still get in. Thats like saying, some aint christians but are still loved because against all odds they still have the same good laws and purposes and make it. Make it where.. well thats up to discussion lol.

All I can say is, Good fortunes with all ya. Hehe never know what side your on tell the battles wages and deaths one hell of a battle!

Man I think I need to give this forum  a break... seems like a bunch of us are heading out.

Sorry to hear this Dek.  You and I have debated back and forth a few times, but it was typically civil and your arguments were coherent and well stated.  Good luck with your battle.

I am going to be honest and not two faced.

I have not been here for long but i have taken a dislike to you because of some of your threads/Post.All people will never see eye to eye,that's just the way of the world but i really do hope you pull through.

Good Luck and god bless...

May your remaining time bring you happiness.