According to Sean Connery anyway www.youtube.com/watch

I swear all celebrities are 100% crazy

Originally posted by Fibsdk

According to Sean Connery anyway www.youtube.com/watch

 

I swear all celebrities are 100% crazy

I didn't watch it, and this isn't going to go over well, but anyway...

If a woman starts hitting me, as in physically attacking me, then she has decided to relinquish any right to chivalry that she may have had. At the point she begins attacking me, I'm going to hit her back. When she decides to hit me, she becomes a threat, and threats are neutralized in any way necessary.

That being said, I'd never hit a woman unless she was physically attacking me.

bleh... screw double standards.

yeah, I don't feel like consuming Hannity's particular brand of garbage tonight.

Having said that, I have a very simple rule when it comes to violence against women. If she's armed then she's going to meet my fist followed by the floor. Unless she's wielding a gun or a chainsaw, obviously.....

Dont care what he does to his women, all i know is that he was the best james bond evar.

Him and Ike Turner must have been twins separated at birth.

According to my girlfriend, "Sometimes girls deserve to be hit. They can be bitches." So, I asked her, "I can hit you then?" She said, "Hell yeah if I'm being an annoying bitch."

I hit women all the time if they provoke it, or to defend myself, get my ass beat anyways though :P

It's equal rights imo :)

I'm going to tell you, I have been in an abusive relationship...long time ago and got the crap beat out of me a number of times by an ex-boyfriend.   Did I deserve it?  NO.   He accused me of cheating on him constantly!   I never once - ever - cheated on him.  Just because I was talking to some guy does not mean I am sleeping with him.   With that said.   I do not know if hitting anyone is the anwser to any arguement - though we'd surely love to, I do not think it is right.  However...if a fight does ensue...men and women have the right to defend themselves - within reason.   That is all I have to say on this matter.

This was 22 years ago..........

TWENTY TWO YEARS!

He long ago made it clear it depended on what the woman was doing. IE if she's hitting you then hit her back.

He did not promote or mean it in terms of beating wives or anything of the kind.

22 years ago....it was dramatized made a thing and spun by the media 22 years ago!

..its done.

This is about as close to the definition of beating a dead horse as I have ever seen...

Originally posted by Teala

I'm going to tell you, I have been in an abusive relationship...long time ago and got the crap beat out of me a number of times by an ex-boyfriend.   Did I deserve it?  NO.   He accused me of cheating on him constantly!   I never once - ever - cheated on him.  Just because I was talking to some guy does not mean I am sleeping with him.   With that said.   I do not know if hitting anyone is the anwser to any arguement - though we'd surely love to, I do not think it is right.  However...if a fight does ensue...men and women have the right to defend themselves - within reason.   That is all I have to say on this matter.

My cousin has been in a abusive relationship like yours, but let me ask you, what did you do AFTER the first time he beat you up and why didn't you just bouce after the first time? Like I'm not really sure what triggers a woman to stay with an abusive person. My cousin was just getting beat up almost every other day till my family found out.

I wanted to beat the guy up, but it's the woman whom has to show the true colors of their relationship. Honestly if a woman hit me, I'm calling 911 and she can spend a night in jail and face assult. I'll tell the officer that hey, it's either me or her. Now it all depends on the situation. Like if she was my girl and she hit me, I'd probabily just leave her, because if a woman feels that THEY have a right to hit a man is not the kind of woman a person like me is intrested in. It's a mixture of troubles.

Being said that, getting my ass kicked back in Matial Art classes and one of my ex's being a fighter, we just just had random sparing sessions in random locations. That's diffrent though, but if a woman came at me with anything other than a hand, I will defend myself and then call police later.

Im 100% against hitting wemon.

But if she is being a total prick and slaps or hits me hard, shes gunna get bitch slapped

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Originally posted by Teala

I'm going to tell you, I have been in an abusive relationship...long time ago and got the crap beat out of me a number of times by an ex-boyfriend.   Did I deserve it?  NO.   He accused me of cheating on him constantly!   I never once - ever - cheated on him.  Just because I was talking to some guy does not mean I am sleeping with him.   With that said.   I do not know if hitting anyone is the anwser to any arguement - though we'd surely love to, I do not think it is right.  However...if a fight does ensue...men and women have the right to defend themselves - within reason.   That is all I have to say on this matter.

 

My cousin has been in a abusive relationship like yours, but let me ask you, what did you do AFTER the first time he beat you up and why didn't you just bouce after the first time? Like I'm not really sure what triggers a woman to stay with an abusive person. My cousin was just getting beat up almost every other day till my family found out.

I wanted to beat the guy up, but it's the woman whom has to show the true colors of their relationship. Honestly if a woman hit me, I'm calling 911 and she can spend a night in jail and face assult. I'll tell the officer that hey, it's either me or her. Now it all depends on the situation. Like if she was my girl and she hit me, I'd probabily just leave her, because if a woman feels that THEY have a right to hit a man is not the kind of woman a person like me is intrested in. It's a mixture of troubles.

Being said that, getting my ass kicked back in Matial Art classes and one of my ex's being a fighter, we just just had random sparing sessions in random locations. That's diffrent though, but if a woman came at me with anything other than a hand, I will defend myself and then call police later.

To answer you I will use a response I made in a similar post about almost the same topic.   Though he had smacked me a couple of times previously it wasn't like the last time.

He wasn't a jerk when I met him. He was actually a pretty nice guy. He became more and more demanding and controlling as our relationship grew...really super jealous. If he even saw me talk to another guy he thought I was sleeping behind his back. One day we got into a fight because of this and when I turned to walk away because he was getting out of control he grabbed me and hit me with a backhand across my face knocking me to the floor. Bloodied my lip, nose and blackened my eye. He stood over me and said he wasn't done yet and called me a bitch. I sat there crying as he yelled at me calling me a two bit whore and all kinds of names. Then he stomped out of the apartment. When I went to my brothers house he looked at me and went ballisitic. Took me to the doctors. I didn't think I needed to go...this of course got my mom and other bothers and a sister involved. I was told to press charges by the doctor...I didn't. So my brothers went and found the guy at one of the bars in town. Took the guy outback and well...I never saw him again...I guess my brothers scared him enough he left town. I know they didn't kill him because when I got back to my apartment the spare keys were there and his stuff was gone and there was a note that said - "The apartment is yours bitch." . All my brothers ever said was they took care of it. Never saw him again.

I have never been in an abusive relationship since.

Originally posted by Teala

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Originally posted by Teala

I'm going to tell you, I have been in an abusive relationship...long time ago and got the crap beat out of me a number of times by an ex-boyfriend.   Did I deserve it?  NO.   He accused me of cheating on him constantly!   I never once - ever - cheated on him.  Just because I was talking to some guy does not mean I am sleeping with him.   With that said.   I do not know if hitting anyone is the anwser to any arguement - though we'd surely love to, I do not think it is right.  However...if a fight does ensue...men and women have the right to defend themselves - within reason.   That is all I have to say on this matter.

 

My cousin has been in a abusive relationship like yours, but let me ask you, what did you do AFTER the first time he beat you up and why didn't you just bouce after the first time? Like I'm not really sure what triggers a woman to stay with an abusive person. My cousin was just getting beat up almost every other day till my family found out.

I wanted to beat the guy up, but it's the woman whom has to show the true colors of their relationship. Honestly if a woman hit me, I'm calling 911 and she can spend a night in jail and face assult. I'll tell the officer that hey, it's either me or her. Now it all depends on the situation. Like if she was my girl and she hit me, I'd probabily just leave her, because if a woman feels that THEY have a right to hit a man is not the kind of woman a person like me is intrested in. It's a mixture of troubles.

Being said that, getting my ass kicked back in Matial Art classes and one of my ex's being a fighter, we just just had random sparing sessions in random locations. That's diffrent though, but if a woman came at me with anything other than a hand, I will defend myself and then call police later.

To answer you I will use a response I made in a similar post about almost the same topic.   Though he had smacked me a couple of times previously it wasn't like the last time.

He wasn't a jerk when I met him. He was actually a pretty nice guy. He became more and more demanding and controlling as our relationship grew...really super jealous. If he even saw me talk to another guy he thought I was sleeping behind his back. One day we got into a fight because of this and when I turned to walk away because he was getting out of control he grabbed me and hit me with a backhand across my face knocking me to the floor. Bloodied my lip, nose and blackened my eye. He stood over me and said he wasn't done yet and called me a bitch. I sat there crying as he yelled at me calling me a two bit whore and all kinds of names. Then he stomped out of the apartment. When I went to my brothers house he looked at me and went ballisitic. Took me to the doctors. I didn't think I needed to go...this of course got my mom and other bothers and a sister involved. I was told to press charges by the doctor...I didn't. So my brothers went and found the guy at one of the bars in town. Took the guy outback and well...I never saw him again...I guess my brothers scared him enough he left town. I know they didn't kill him because when I got back to my apartment the spare keys were there and his stuff was gone and there was a note that said - "The apartment is yours bitch." . All my brothers ever said was they took care of it. Never saw him again.

I have never been in an abusive relationship since.

 

Sorry to hear that story. Quite blessed to have such a caring family. Who knew what could have happened if they wern't there for you. One more question, though. I promise last question, why didn't you want to press charges?

Because I didn't want to air my dirty luandry out in court at the time.  

Originally posted by Teala

Because I didn't want to air my dirty luandry out in court at the time.  

I understand. Miss Teala, thank you so much for your time and story. I really do appreacte you telling me your experiences. This is something I always take in mind, because not everybody thinks the same and not everybody is the same. Thank you. I'm gonna beat up Chun-Li in Street Fighter 4 now.

Haha...Sean connery. So old school, I love it. That man epitomizes james bond.

But on the note of hitting women. Sometimes I think it's necessary, especially in this day and age. Alot of women have become use to the fact that there is such a taboo on hitting them, that they feel free reign to go ballistic. Not all women, but some.

I had an ex that was this way. She was at times very verbally, and even physically abusive. She was not a twig either, so she could hit rather hard. Yet I was not a guy who couldn't defend myself, yet I'm very pacifistic and never felt pushed to the edge of no control where I would hit a woman. Honestly though...She probably needed it. There was no boundary, and she pushed those boundaries, and alot of women become this way, and it's wrong. I think if a woman stops acting like a lady, she loses the right to be treated like one. Would I ever hit a woman? I don't know. Probably if she pushed me to the very brink(something that takes me hard to do), or cheated on me.

But in all honesty, society has created a messed up situations, a scream for equal rights, yet not wanting the negative part of being equal.

Unless it's some sort of fight for life situation, no it's not right.  It's pretty pathetic, actually. 

This guy my mom was 'seeing' hit her.  I was still a kid ... took a frying pan to him one day when he was sleeping.... yeah it's kind of cowardly but fuck I was a lil kid... the guy never came back and what's fucked up  - my mom was pissed as hell and beat me...

On that note, the whole deal with Rihanna is about to go VERY bad for that wuss POS Chris Brown for what he did to her http://www.tmz.com/2009/02/19/rihanna-photo-face-beating/ ... Jay-Z is calling him a 'dead man' publically, probably not the brightest thing he could do but we'll see...

www.youtube.com/watch

Originally posted by eagles12555

www.youtube.com/watch

 

 

lol while I love Chapelle show... and it's a great clip... the over-repetition ruined it that clip.

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

My cousin has been in a abusive relationship like yours, but let me ask you, what did you do AFTER the first time he beat you up and why didn't you just bouce after the first time? Like I'm not really sure what triggers a woman to stay with an abusive person. My cousin was just getting beat up almost every other day till my family found out.

I wanted to beat the guy up, but it's the woman whom has to show the true colors of their relationship. Honestly if a woman hit me, I'm calling 911 and she can spend a night in jail and face assult. I'll tell the officer that hey, it's either me or her. Now it all depends on the situation. Like if she was my girl and she hit me, I'd probabily just leave her, because if a woman feels that THEY have a right to hit a man is not the kind of woman a person like me is intrested in. It's a mixture of troubles.

Being said that, getting my ass kicked back in Matial Art classes and one of my ex's being a fighter, we just just had random sparing sessions in random locations. That's diffrent though, but if a woman came at me with anything other than a hand, I will defend myself and then call police later.

If my girl so happen to EVER raise a hand at me, I would grab her by the throat and have her against the closest wall.  She, my friend, would need a reality check.

I'll never hit my girlfriend.  Restraining force is sufficient enough.

Originally posted by hvc801

If my girl so happen to EVER raise a hand at me, I would grab her by the throat and have her against the closest wall.  She, my friend, would need a reality check.

I'll never hit my girlfriend.  Restraining force is sufficient enough.

 

If you keep them caged, you don't have to worry about them raising a hand against you.

Originally posted by Hazmal

Originally posted by hvc801

If my girl so happen to EVER raise a hand at me, I would grab her by the throat and have her against the closest wall.  She, my friend, would need a reality check.

I'll never hit my girlfriend.  Restraining force is sufficient enough.

 

 

If you keep them caged, you don't have to worry about them raising a hand against you.

or if you're taliban, you could just spray some acid on them while they go to school.

Originally posted by hvc801

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

My cousin has been in a abusive relationship like yours, but let me ask you, what did you do AFTER the first time he beat you up and why didn't you just bouce after the first time? Like I'm not really sure what triggers a woman to stay with an abusive person. My cousin was just getting beat up almost every other day till my family found out.

I wanted to beat the guy up, but it's the woman whom has to show the true colors of their relationship. Honestly if a woman hit me, I'm calling 911 and she can spend a night in jail and face assult. I'll tell the officer that hey, it's either me or her. Now it all depends on the situation. Like if she was my girl and she hit me, I'd probabily just leave her, because if a woman feels that THEY have a right to hit a man is not the kind of woman a person like me is intrested in. It's a mixture of troubles.

Being said that, getting my ass kicked back in Matial Art classes and one of my ex's being a fighter, we just just had random sparing sessions in random locations. That's diffrent though, but if a woman came at me with anything other than a hand, I will defend myself and then call police later.

 

If my girl so happen to EVER raise a hand at me, I would grab her by the throat and have her against the closest wall.  She, my friend, would need a reality check.

I'll never hit my girlfriend.  Restraining force is sufficient enough.

 

That's a start of a Mortal Kombat finishing move.

Hitting women is NOT okay, and in these parts it could very well result in you being drug from the back of a truck down a gravel road and left tied to a tree in the woods naked. ( no I am not kidding this is Texas we are talking about here).  I do not believe it is okay for women to hit men either, but instead of grabbing anyone and throwing them up against walls or holding them down and such, YOU walk away from it.  If they are preventing you from walking away, you may restrain them if the situation calls for it, not by grabbing their throat  but  the arm behind the back is very effective. Squeezing anyones throat there is always the possibility of crushing their windpipe and then you would be up on murder charges.

Now That being said , as a woman, I have had to "fend off" agrressive men, and no I have never "struck " a man first.  In self defense however, I have had to knee a guy in the **** and the stomache and push him into the mens bathroom before laying on the ground cryin for his mommy due to him refusing to "keep his hands to himself" and yes I have had to put a guy on his back and stand on his windpipe until the authorites arrived because he ripped my shirt.  I am not a big girl but I am 110lbs of pure woopas! 

To all the girls out there that deal with that kind of BS, I suggest you look into some HTH training. there are many self defense courses out there, my favorite was actually An Israeli militant course that was given in my area, due to it's use of all fighting styles and use of anything and everything around you to defend yourself against all kinds of attacks and use of weapons. It was the most complete I have seen yet.

And to all you guys that think you want to overpower a woman and see her as weak and easy prey, you better watch out that might be the last time you hurt a girl, she may be better trained than you are and might feed you your own poop!