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I'm a 22 year old Male and I have to say I've never had friends really, only have one atm and I'm trying to find my place in life. After school everyone left and we all got jobs apart fro I've never been able to hold a job, always get fired after a week or so because I'm fedup of the way managers treat us so I tell them where to go and get fired.

I just feel lost in the world and dunno what to do.

I'm not a freak or anything.... http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/7505/moo2og1.jpg

It's like I don't wanna be old before I work out all this shit man, everyone seems to be having the time of their life but me, I just don't seem to fit in. I've just stayed in and played games all my life but I've finally got tired of games, dunno if theres nothing left

I just feel like "AHHHHHHHHHHHHH",,,,,,,

you know what most Teenagers are going through that I never went through until now :(

Just feel so lost and son't wanna be into my late 20's before I find myself :(

Originally posted by JustBe

Just feel so lost and son't wanna be into my late 20's before I find myself :(

Profile says you're 28.

Have you gone to college? If not, I would suggest that. Some of my best friends was from my college days. Also, if you go to college, you will be the manager

Originally posted by Enigma

Originally posted by JustBe

Just feel so lost and son't wanna be into my late 20's before I find myself :(

 

Profile says you're 28.

Have you gone to college? If not, I would suggest that. Some of my best friends was from my college days. Also, if you go to college, you will be the manager

I just picked any age

I got thrown outta college cause the teachers are fucking twats who think they can treat us all like shit and it's like hang on treat me like a human not shit on your shoe you fucking dick.

Friends are over rated ;p

Yea alot of teens describe themselves as feeling "lost" its pretty tough to go through. Not sure what advice to give..maybe try meeting new people at work or somthing? Maybe you can meet some of your friend's other friends somtime?

I personally just accept being alone, which is kind of why I play mmo's often. Im more than certain that old friends of mine are out having a blast right now but I don't think about it to much.

Hope things work themselves out, also as an above poster said if you havent gone to college yet you should give it a shot, I hear its quite fun these days.

Edit: Btw love the hair

I don't want to over analyze your situation, JustBe, and I don't want to sound insensitive:

But you sound like you have a really bad "authority complex."  You say you don't last at any job for a week because you tell your managers off and you just described your college professors like a demon-possessed Blair described her mother before she vomited her split pea soup in the priests' faces.

Maybe your friend issue may be a more deep routed issue than you realize.

PS: You cant live your life hating authority; it'll just get worse for you. Also, if your professors were so horrible you can always apply at another college.  In terms of financial growth it will be hard without a degree and with an anti-authoritative philosophy you're going to have a hard time adjusting as you grow older.

I don't mind people being in charge but I just don't stand for it when they treat us like dicks like everyone else does, if they're gonna treat me like shit and say something to me which is insulting them I'm gonna tell them where to stick it. Everyone else just sits there and my mum says to me you can't do that, theres people in life you wont like but you just have to get on with it. I always say "why do I?" I'm just sick of people treating me like crap and aint standing for it.

Just everyones having the time of their life and I'm not....... I feel like they're all young and i've skipped 20 years and having a mid life crisis, I want my youth back.

I went to sleep I was 15 andhaving fun with GTA3 and all the good times back then and now I woke up suddenly 22 and it's like where did it all go?

Originally posted by Enigma

I don't want to over analyze your situation, JustBe, and I don't want to sound insensitive:

But you sound like you have a really bad "authority complex."  You say you don't last at any job for a week because you tell your managers off and you just described your college professors like a demon-possessed Blair described her mother before she vomited her split pea soup in the priests' faces.

Maybe your friend issue may be a more deep routed issue than you realize.

PS: You cant live your life hating authority; it'll just get worse for you. Also, if your professors were so horrible you can always apply at another college.  In terms of financial growth it will be hard without a degree and with an anti-authoritative philosophy you're going to have a hard time adjusting as you grow older.

 

I'll be straight with you.  It sounds like you've got a serious attitude problem and are on a one-way street to nowhere.  I can recognize that because I've been there myself.  Go enlist.  You might die, though probably not.  You might even die for a shitty cause.  But at least you'll die a man, with some discipline and honor.  Or just honor, if you choose the chAir Force, but they're cool too.

Seriously, though.  There is no magic bullet.  Even what I suggested above is only good for getting out of you what's already there.  I've known guys who have had service pull the best and worst out of them at the same time.

What you really need is to make a choice.  Go nowhere or change.  What you're doing now is not working.  Our society is hierarchical.  Sooner or later, you will be working for the man, and the man will be an asshole.  So live with it.  Bite the bullet and push on through.  Everything comes to an end, good or bad.

Anyway, you could try going back to school.  It's not that hard if you keep your mouth shut when the moment calls for it.  It works.  Get a degree and move onto better things.  Or do what I suggested.  Or do anything.

you should apply as a cop or a correctional officer. Get some of that frustration out and it gives you a chance to turn the cards around

I agree with the above poster, a cop or somthing would be an excellent job for you. You will still have to report to higher people, but over civilians you have authority.

Just please be a good cop, dont take bribes/etc.

edit: But yea really you gotta accept being talked down upon, my managers do it to me but I just let it go. Usually all forgotten about the next day.