Originally posted by Teala

Is this person looking for a lasting relationship or is this merely a booty call sorta thing?  If the female in question is looking for a longer lasting relationship then tell your "friend" to keep their pants on until the female gives some sort of serious inclanation that that is the direction she wishes to take it.

It's a relationship actually, no booty call. In my mind of course (with the situation reversed), it kinda seems like...well it's hard to explain.

Originally posted by Draenor

You don't even know her in real life and she bought you all of that stuff?  It's either stolen or she is absolutely insane.

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

Originally posted by UNATCOII

Because women would rather pluck eyebrows that be talked about like different cuts of meat, let alone hear the game talk that includes some very foul words -- like rape.

Yeah, I read about so many nice guys online, but they'll be the first to laugh and even joke with such foul ideas. Reminds me of those nice white guys in the South during the 60s, snickering over the "N" word.

Women just not going to waste their time online to read such trash, when the same Neandertal mindset exists in RL.

That said: post #2 is on par. If someone has a sugar momma or daddy, there's a price to pay for it eventually -- as nothing is given for free. If you think going to bed with someone is payment, it's chump change, as high price tag items usually means they want more than hitting the sack.

There's reasons why folks work and pay for their way, and one is not being a tool for anyone else.

I don't like when a girl is treated as meat, but I don't like when a girl don't respect themselves. Being that my best friend was raped and killed and so has one of my family members, I don't like the world 'rape' being tossed around and I find more females doing that then males. They say it just to say it, but to be in the position it's haunting and disrespetful.

All women are not the same. See there is women would would read trash online, but there is more to most women when it comes to being online. Exploiting themselves, making themselves look like meat, all sorts of things. You speak for yourself, but I know you can't speak for all women. I'm a ladies man (why do i feel sad to say this?) and I have seen the good and bad in so many that I see why you would say such things. I don't think the guys are to blame.

I had a sugar momma once and you know she moved on, because she wanted a relationship, giving me all kinds of stuff and I just didn't want to go too fast at all. So she moved on and acted like she never had feelings for me...so I try, then I stop, and now she's trying to gain my friendship, because you really start to feel the pain when you lose somthing good.

I see where your coming from and I feel that your talking general. I understand most, but I wouldn't defend for "all women".

I would do it.  Easily, with no thought put into the decision at all.

People are putting sex on a pedestal, and I really don't see why.  I don't consider it a big deal at all.. sometimes, people (both people in a situation) just need to get laid.  If she comes down and wants to hop on it, I don't see why you should wait or not do it.

Now, the fact that she bought you all this stuff... that's a reason for concern.  What if she's obsessive and crazy? 

be real. be a mans man. dont be girly 21century man. if its mutual. be man. get laid. than fart and scratch afterwards, alot.

Originally posted by unconformed

be real. be a mans man. dont be girly 21century man. if its mutual. be man. get laid. than fart and scratch afterwards, alot.

maybe only at the man show, me i kind of like the image of victorian era gentlemen.

You get and and get free stuff ? I really dont see the downfall. unless she has herpes in which case you should get real plastered to the point where she doesnt remember anything so can tell her the next morning how great she was

Originally posted by Vampir

 

Originally posted by unconformed

be real. be a mans man. dont be girly 21century man. if its mutual. be man. get laid. than fart and scratch afterwards, alot.

you see nowhere in recorded history is that the idealized image of a man.

 

maybe only at the man show, me i kind of like the image of victorian era gentlemen.

im living vicariously through these forums.

I say no....there is something fishy with this story. This girl spending all this money on you and have you spent all of this on her? Sounds like a newspaper story of a krazy child molester trying any way possible to get his victums address...lol...

Originally posted by KrAzYBLADE

I say no....there is something fishy with this story. This girl spending all this money on you and have you spent all of this on her? Sounds like a newspaper story of a krazy child molester trying any way possible to get his victums address...lol...

Ever see Fatal Attraction?

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

Nail it to the wall...make it worth her while..tell her this all have to give her right NOW.

Be humble,and thankful she has let herself be known..to YOU

And put a rain coat on.

Im flat broke.. but I dont care..I just strut right by, with tail in the air...stray cat strut,im a ladys man... feeling casanova..Blab Blah

And be respectful.

Originally posted by cryora

 

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

 

So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

Originally posted by cryora

 

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

 

So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

 

Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.

Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Rikimaru don't feel like telling a story right now, so I'm getting to the point. I want to ask you guys this: Say there is a girl online that likes you and you like her (she's a 7.5 out of 10) and you know she buys you a:

Elite Xbox 360

Nintendo DS

Nintendo Wii

Playstation 3

and some games

and will be visiting you with the stuff in a week to see you and give you the gifts and spend time with you....and this is TRULY LEGIT. Would you pull down the boxers/pants/drawers to this girl (if you know what I mean)?

Pull down the pants? Hell, I'll be stark naked when I open the door. I can make a bundle selling off the Nintendo and Xbox360 crap, and have another PS3, all for the price of a lay. How the hell could anyone top that?

Originally posted by Draenor

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

Originally posted by cryora

 

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

 

So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

 

Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.

Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

My bad man. I should have put, "if you put yourself in her shoes, would you..."

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

Originally posted by Draenor

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

 

Originally posted by cryora

 

Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

 

So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

 

Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.

Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

 

My bad man. I should have put, "if you put yourself in her shoes, would you..."

On how you play it.

If you give the things to her and make her feel like a hooker , if she is sexually loose she will use you as a sugar daddy, if she is a real girl she will feel cheap and leave you.

If you make her feel like you gave things to her because you love her then everything will go fine and dandy, she will see you as soul mate and protector.

But mostlikely(im trying to merge this into one word)  one of the first two options will occur if you try something like this this soon.

If you like a 7.5 girl it's ok - just be sure to know that when someone loves another person, looks are secondary.

Now this sounds weird to me: a person you met online spent some hundreds of dollars to buy a gift for another person she's never met. She might be crazy - at least.

Now, she's coming over. I'd say she is probably interested in you - very much, because she's spending a lot of money. Which is weird because usually women don't express love materially.

Now, you have to know that sex is a possible outcome of a date. If she's inclined to do it, she'll let you know. And if you do not comply, you may have broken her heart. She might then leave thinking she was so stupid buying all that stuff for you, and you rejected her.

Normally, men buy women gifts - not the other way around. Gifts are usually seen as tokens of men's appreciation - but they don't t guarantee sex. Women have the final word on that. What is happening to you is what goes through the mind of some women during their first dates: "If he/she gives me a gift/pays for the dinner, should I reward him with sex?" This is your first date with this woman - are you willing to have sex with her this first time? What will she think of you? That you're too easy? That you're going to have sex with anyone that gives you a pretty gift?

The nonsense apart, this is why the good guy in the movies sometimes refuses to accept an expensive gift from someone - because they don't want to be in someone's debt. Now the family of this girl might be the owner of, say, Microsoft - and thus buying a PS3 wouldn't be much - just like a normal visiting present (a bottle of wine, for example) should cost. But you have to check that with your life standards.

I hope this girl reads your post and sees she's going after someone whose first thought is: "Will I [have sex] with this 7.5/10 female after receiving her precious gift?" - oh, I've just realized why women don't give men gifts: the women already have THE GIFT to give to them - they just have to know if they're worth of receiving it.

Id have to agree with the poster above, its really, really odd to have someone that you met online suddenly buy you a bunch of gifts - albeit,  quite expensive (a Wii, Xbox and Ps3? Thats gotta be around 700, at least)  and go over there herself so meet you. Usually its the guy who does it, if anything, but even then the amount of money spent on this sign of affection is a bit absurd. Sounds like she is very desperate if shes really looking for a relationship online. TBH it sounds a bit fishy to me and you better watch your step. Unless you talked to this person on webcam mano a mano, I would be very wary. Sounds like someone has some issues.

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Originally posted by Vampir

maybe only at the man show, me i kind of like the image of victorian era gentlemen.

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DAMN! If you were 10 years older......

:p

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Originally posted by Ghost12

Usually its the guy who does it, if anything, but even then the amount of money spent on this sign of affection is a bit absurd. Sounds like she is very desperate if shes really looking for a relationship online.

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Sounds more like a guy looking for a chickenhawk (gay talk for an underaged boy, i.e., twink).

If a woman does it she's looking to exploit, especially someone she's never met before.

I'd drop it, until I know the person in RL. Too much weird stuff online.