While I am writing this blog entry from the perspective of EVE, this will apply to all MMO gamers to some degree.
When we jump into a new game what is the first thing it seems everyone wants to do? Get to the biggest, baddest ship I can ASAP. In the case of fantasy, get to the highest level I can as fast as I can. This is human nature when it comes to gaming, we want to be the best. However in our quest to rush forward we many times end up with the appearnace of knowing what we are doing and not in reality having a clue.
Let me regress to my LOTRO days for a moment to give an example. As I played up my Burglar I took my time and explored each new skill with a vengence. While others where making 2 or 3 levels a day I was lucky to see one every three days. I was not playing less, I was just staying at lower level quests and mastering solo play. After all this is what a burglar should be best at. The result was by the time I had reached level 30 I was better at using my burglar than most level 50s. In fact upon hitting level 45 I knew a lot of groups that would not want the lvel 50 but would rather I join them instead.
The same theory applies to EVE. Since my return I have taken the slow and deliberate approach. I have trained my learning skills first and added my base skills when I had time to micromanage the skills. I mean switch them literally as they come due. I have also curtailed my desire to get straight to bigger ships and have instead focused on mastering where I am.
Right now, if I truly wanted to I could be in a battlecruiser in 2 days, thats right 48 hours and I could be piloting one of the toughest ships in the game. Yet I am content right now to stay in my Slasher. SLASHER? You heard me right, Slasher.
My reasoning is simple. RIght now the Slasher is a ship that is inexpensive and easy on the skills to fly. As I skill up the effect on the Slahser is obvious. I seed speed boosts and my Nav skills come up. As Engineering skills advance I watch my shields get noticably tougher and my power grid improve. I can see the changes with even one level change and this makes me better bale to fine tune my skill advancement.
Even the frigate pilots though rush forward to get into their Rifter. I stay with the slasher because it is the ultimate of Minmatar, my race of choice, style. It is all speed, that tied into decent fire power, three guns and a missile, and I am finding that I have yet to have an issue with a level 1 mission.
Staying in the Slasher has taught me prudence in combat. I do not feel invulnerable, in fact I am usually a little scared in some of the tougher missions. This is the same Slasher that I got from my agent early in my carreer so I have an attachment and am doing my best to not lose it. This prudence will serve me well in PVP where sometimes it just makes sense to retreat.
Now I still have the normal human desire to be the best so I have shifted my goal, I am going to be th best Slasher pilot in EVE. This means I still have a lot of skills in Gunnery, Engineering, Electronics, Navigation, Mechanic and Missiles to work on before I can achieve that goal. However once that goal is achieved it means when I move to the next level of ship I will not start barely able to fly it. Those same skills will move upward as well and I will be that much more effective when I am in the bigger ships.
So fi you are new to gaming, EVE in particualr, then my advise is avoid the rush. DO not sweat getting into the biggest ship you can as fast as you can. Stay calm and putter around a bit in your frigate. Leanr to master the smaller ship, make it your own. Trust me it will pay off, be a ton of fun and when you hit the bigger ships, watch out!

