I´m drunk and i´m Swedish so my spelling will be against me. I was recently on my local bar/Club in town. And not a Girl looked twice on for the whole evening =( I know i´m not the best looker but i´m kind and smart enough. So what i´m really asking is does girls want obnoxious guys not caring if the girl says no or the guys waiting for a go ahead sign?? I feel like a creepy guy if i have to bee intruding on a girl not giving ok me beeing there talking to her... Does girls like beeing charmed more then they are disturbed of me trying?? can´t make sense of it but then again i´m just an old metalhead going gamer so i can´t expect that much i guess.
Looks only go so far, the rest is personality. You have to have the guts in you to go and talk to them. And if you do, they should be enjoying your company.
Next time you're out try to go up to girls and start talking. The first couple times it will be bad, but you will get used to their company. Keep practicing, mate. Picking up girls is a set of skills, just like any other.
Sun Jan 03 2010 5:13AM ReportGirls are dumb.
Sun Jan 03 2010 10:47AM ReportGirls like to be in abusive relationships, not in relationships with "nice guys"
Sun Jan 03 2010 12:56PM ReportLike Soponyai said, you need to just build up the nerve to go chat with them. I understand you don't want to seem creepy... but women like assertiveness, do nto think of it as indruding. They're at a bar to meet people. Walk up, say hello. Introduce yourself.
If you're really unsure of if you're comign across badly, perhaps read up on female body language? I'm sure there are resources on the internet about it... some will be crappy resources so always take things with a grain of salt until they've proven themselves in your "field studies" at the bar.
It may take time to find the balance between projectign confidence and also not being overly aggressive or creepy. You'll just have to keep trying, this is not somethign you can learn except through practice.
Good luck!
Mon Jan 04 2010 5:19AM ReportMMORPG.com writes:
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